Now does that mean I will purposely make myself look unattractive? No, I enjoy playing with what I call my "skin sack" until it turns into a crumbling mass of bones to be eaten by worms. And I do not find this offensive, either. It is life. Death is life, and the more I tune into this, the more joy I can live with--the less I will spend time thinking about doing things to avoid death like having my face pulled tight so I don't have wrinkles, trying to dress in a way not b/c I enjoy it, but to "fool" people into thinking I am younger. I do not need to entrance all men. Or any men. My husband thinks I am the cat's meow most of the time, except when I am acting like Medusa.
I told my friend, I don't care. I also told him, I am a middle-aged woman and I want to have my hair as it is. Grey. It is not a political statement. I am not a "feminist." I am just me. And I am finding that I have never been happier with myself than at this point, and I am certainly not as young or beautiful or as strong, etc. But what I am, is gaining more an more acceptance of who I am, and this brings wonderful joy. More than my dyed hair. Am I pissy sometimes because I feel "fat," or unsuccessful, or anxious? Duh. But keeping my greys is on the long-term plan before return back to the earth with the worms. And who knows? I might come back a natural blonde.
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